Many states in the USA allow divorces to one or both of a couple to end their marriage just because they consider there are irreconcilable differences.  But when you think about it any marriage should have irreconcilable differences.    There is little doubt that the best way to save your marriage is to embrace the conflict [...]

It is going to mean a terrible struggle if you are going to succeed, so you have to very certain that you are doing the right thing.    You must be sure that you want to be with your ex for the next few years.  If you are not you should get divorce immediately and move [...]