How Can She Get Back Together With Her Ex – She Should Start By Listening To Him
Chrissie was lost. . Nobody had ever taught her how to get back together with her ex, Jim. He said he no longer wanted to go out only with Chrissie; as he wanted to date other girls as well. Jim told her he was very fond of her, but he felt he needed more space.
Chrissie wanted to get back together with her ex, at all cost. She asked herself, should she phone him or send a message? Should she ignore him? Should she start flirting with his friends to draw attention to her plight?
Well, she would be better off doing none of these. She should start by listening to him.
Jim was quite clear. Yes, he loved Chrissie but also he wanted more space. If Jim really loves Chrissie, he means just what he is saying. The relationship has developed a little too rapidly for him to be able to cope with things. Jim still loves Chrissie but wants to take a step back and decide where his life is going to take him.
If Chrissie handles the situation badly it is clear that she will lose the love of her life.
If Chrissie starts pestering Jim all the time she will only annoy him and send him even further away, as he has clearly said he wants some space.
Her friends suggested that she flirted with some of Jim’s friends to make Jim jealous. It is always easy to start playing games but not so easy to end them. If Chrissie has serious feelings for Jim she would be unwise to jeopardize them. And all it will do is get Jim more and more annoyed and push him even further away.
Chrissie can also just decide to ignore Jim totally, but she will be punishing herself certainly as much as she punishes Jim and probably more.
When Chrissie is open and receptive when she happens to meet Jim at different social events,
Jim will see her as the wonderful person she really is. He will want to spend more time with her. So Chrissie’s best option is just to listen to Jim and give him the space he is asking for.
Chrissie should leave Jim to decide whether to get back together. Chrissie has shown herself in her best light and so there is every chance that Jim will soon be ready to return. When he does it will be because he feels ready at last to move the relationship to a higher level.
Chrissie will find that behaving as she did has helped her not just to get back together with her ex, but to find that her relationship has improved from all points of view.
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