The first thing that you have to be completely clear on when you are trying to get your ex back, is that you are certain you want them back.  You are only going to waste a lot of your time and theirs if you are just doing so to get revenge.   When you have been dumped often think that they will feel better when they get their revenge.  Forget about it as it will bring you no good.  Just calm down before you take action and take your time.   With a little luck you will soon forget your ex and start looking for someone else more suitable.  

However, when you are certain that they are for you, here are some tips for trying to get your ex back.   

Avoid giving the impression of desperation; it is not a flattering quality and it will certainly not appeal to your ex.  If he sees you on good form and happy, he is far more likely to be drawn towards you.  Don’t contact him, but make sure that he sees you with mutual friends from time to time.  

Don’t chase after them all the time and make a nuisance of yourself, because this will only annoy them and drive them farther away.   

Make sure that they see that you are looking after yourself, dressed and groomed as they like to see you.  

Avoid dating others to make your ex jealous.  There is never any good reason for putting someone else in the way when you are trying to get your ex back.    Learn to be direct when you are speaking to your ex.  Both men and women often have communications problems when they are discussing their problems with the opposite sex.  So don’t be afraid of letting your ex know how you feel. You may lose a little pride, but saying how you feel is often one of the soundest ways of getting your ex back.  

When you are trying to get your ex back you have to be prepared to do everything to make them want to have you back. 

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