If you feel “I miss my ex girlfriend,” you should start to move on in your life.  The break up is not the end of the world, and there will always be someone to follow your ex; it is for you to find them a little later.  .  But for now you are still suffering from after relationship depression and finding your route ahead is difficult.  You need to draw put together a list of clear cut actions that you are going to take, that will help you move forward. 

You have to start by closing down the old relationship before you can prepare yourself to move on.  So convince yourself that the relationship is over so that the healing can commence.    So get on with the physical aspect of closing the relationship, by returning clothes and settling any debts between you and your ex. 

Now you are ready to take some space, so stop all contact with your ex for the time being to give yourself a chance to get over everything.  You may wish to stay friends but that can be organized later.

You are probably going to have to change where you go in the short term so that you avoid running into your girlfriend.   All seeing her will do for you, particularly if she is with another boyfriend, is start you feeling “I miss my girlfriend” once again.  Just avoid giving her the chance to get back at you. 

Changing where you go will bring you to new places where you will meet new friends.  You will find new girlfriends to date.  It is only now that you will be able to get over your old relationship when you think about the new people you are meeting, and less of the past.

At first getting back to dating can be hard, but the sooner you start again the quicker you are going to heal. 

To help you find more new friends, you can take on new activities, which as well as being interesting, will bring you into contact with other girlfriends.  If you fancy a woman date her: dating is a social experience and not a life time commitment. 

As soon as you start to realize that you are saying “I miss my ex girlfriend” much less often, you will realize that you are successfully moving on to the future that your life holds for you. 

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