After a traumatic break up, you know you still have feelings for your ex and you feel you must have her back.  Everything you have tried so far has so far has been unsuccessful and you refuse to go crawling to her beseeching her to return.     You must learn about using simple reverse psychology if you are to reach your objective.  You have to make her notice you instead ignore you;  nothing more simple!

The first thing you need to do is to stop having any contact at all with them.  This may be difficult but it is essential to your strategy.   Not contacting her will make you appear calm, collected and mature particularly when you have been pursuing her all hours of the day and night, and she says she wants  nothing more to do with you.   When she sees you leave her alone, she will no longer see that you as desperate but more someone who is calm and mature and more interesting to be with. 

This reverse psychology will leave her curious to know what you are doing and how you are getting on.  She always thought you were so predictable.  You are winning because she is thinking about you! 

Now you must get out and enjoy yourself with friends, new and old.  Hard as this may be, it is much better than sitting at home fighting your desire to think about them and to want to contact them, so go out and have fun!

Before too long, you can be sure that the grapevine will start operating and she will see that you are coping very well on your own. She may be a little envious that you are out there enjoying yourself without her and rather than avoiding you she will want to be part of the enjoyment.  She will soon be contacting you, to satisfy her curiosity as well as to see what you are doing and how you are.

All this time you should be making an effort to look after yourself so that you wile come more attractive to her.  Take care to concentrate principally on your own requirements, ignoring what she says you must do to please her.  Using simple reverse psychology will make her reply to you in a friendly way.   You are now well on the way to winning your ex back. 

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