I Lost My Love – Every Relationship Has A Time Line
“It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” Alfred Lord Tennyson
The first time this happened to me, I was convinced that all was finished for me.
But in life, remember that all relationships have a natural duration. Like many others, I was at university when I had my first love. I was convinced it was for ever but it only went a few weeks. As we get a little older, the relationships last longer. Most people will have one main affair in their lives; the others just come and go. This is why I state that al relationships have a natural duration.
I had just started to work when I decided to live with my girlfriend. Her apartment lease came up for renewal and we didn’t want to pay two rents. It was more a decision of economics than anything else, although at the time I did not see it that way. I was uneasy at her taking everything over in the way that she did. I was often away from home working and she was unhappy that I was rarely there. I did not feel I wanted to settle down. E broke up a few months later when she left me.
Although I did not feel she would ever be my only love, I have no regrets about the times we spent together. I was happy when I was with her and I still guard affection for her. Love was lost because I did not feel ready to spend the rest of my life with her, now I realize I was too immature to settle down at this time.
I was upset at the time but my traveling kept my mind off the break up. Yes when she left I was upset and I know she was at how I had acted with her.
I didn’t particularly want her to go as we had started to get into a certain routine that suited me. As every relationship has a time line, they grow or they die, and I let mine die. That is how I lost my love.
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