Im Still In Love, My Ex May Not Be
You are in a difficult position if you feel, “I’m still in love, my ex may not be.” How do you know that your ex is still also in love with you? She may have said she doesn’t love you any more but this does not mean she never thinks of you. There are also other reasons why couples guard loving sentiments after they have split up.
It’s not necessarily a wise thing to try to get back together again when you truly feel I’m still in love, and perhaps my ex still loves me. There was certainly a cause for the split up. If it was your ex who wanted the break up while you wanted to stay together you must reflect very seriously as it is always possible to explain why the split up was the most reasonable thing that could happen in the circumstances. When you are still feeling sad about the break up, there may be the desire to get back and try again, but once a little time has passed, you may well find that the break up was a wise move for you.
It is even more essential that you reflect on why you broke up at all if you both agreed on the break and you are suffering because you are thinking “I’m still in love, my ex should be here with me.” It could be that you broke up by error, but when you seriously reflect on why you both split up in thee first place, you may find it wiser to love your ex at a distance and work on moving on rather than trying to patch up an old love affair.
When you can say “I’m still in love; my ex even wants to get back together,” you may be pleased to think that you are both going to work things out anew. It will still be difficult as the problems that made you split in the first place, risk to be ever present, if you cannot bring some changes. You will start again by getting on fine together at least for a time as you are both happy to return to each other. But after a time you risk to be back where you were in the first place, and so what will you do then?
You are both going to have to work on the problems that you first had if you are to return to each other only to split again in the future. Consider relationship counsel as a means to help both of you.
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