He broke up with me, how do I get him back with me is a question that most of us have been asking at some time in our lives.  It is probably your first relationship break up and the first time that you have been dumped by a man. 

Before going any further you should start by asking why you want him back.  Is it because you feel your pride has taken a dent or are you really sure that you want to get back into a relationship with him?    Is he really for you?  Do you think it should have been you who did the breaking up?   If you are trying to get him back to draw your revenge you are wasting your time.   Furthermore you risk causing yourself much suffering and that can hardly be very wise.

It may not be very pleasant to be dumped like this, but it has happened to so many other people.  Before you find your ideal man you are likely going to meet many other men who may choose to end your relationship if you don’t get in first and break it

Do you know why he ended the relationship when you loved him so much?  What did you do that made him react in this way?  Have you behaved badly; were you mean, moody, unfaithful or ungrateful?  If you were you need to apologize for having hurt him and ask him to give you one more chance 

When you don’t know the reason why he broke up and you are sure you want to get back with him, you are going to have to play a few female games.  Dress to kill, particularly when you know you are going to see him somewhere and date other men casually.  Who knows, if he still has any feelings for you he may feel jealous and want you back. 

Now that you are single again make sure you get out and amuse yourself.  Nobody wants to with someone who is moody and desperate.  Let everybody see how much you are enjoying yourself.  If he doesn’t see for himself that you are on great form you can rely on your mutual friends to let him know, and this is not going to please him very much. 

Behave as if you want to ignore him so that he will have to work that much harder if he wants to get you back. He must be made to see that you are happy with your new life and if he wants to share it with you he is going to have to show he is making an effort and come to you.  

You may find that it is easier than you first thought to get him back.

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