Lots of women would do almost anything to become one of the women men adore and never want to leave.  The sad thing about is that they don’t know the way to go about it and so end up shunting from one man to another and losing them each time.  This article is written help them learn what they should really do to succeed.

Start by going through a brainwash of what you have heard and been told about men and women.   Old conventions have been established on information that is totally false.

The idea that men are more sexual than women and sex is the only thing men want in a relationship is complete rubbish.  If you think that you will keep a man just by giving him as much sex as he can take, you are totally mistaken. 

Men do indeed like sex but women do also; they have just as high a sex drive as men.  It is just that they have been taught to behave themselves and wait until they are married.   Society tells men to go out and satisfy their urges as and when they hit them, but the girls must put up with controlling theirs regardless of how furious and frustrated it makes them. 

The reality is that men and women are both looking for the same basic things in a relationship.  Each one wants to be loved, admired and respected by their partner.  They want to feel they are each an integral part of their couple and this can only happen when this is the case. 

We all need to have this feeling so remember this and centre your relationship with him on this.   Follow this, you women, and you will increase your chances that he will continue to love you for ever.

The more you are connected to each other, either emotionally, spiritually and sexually, and better still, if you combine the three, the stronger will be your relationship.  Keep him in love by being in love with yourself.  If you hold back on your desires just to suit him you will likely end up losing him.  At first he may be flattered by the attention but eventually he will get bored and leave you.    

When he first met you he liked what he saw so it is ridiculous to try to change and become someone who is only likely to bore him.   Why change to being someone who clings on to him all the time when he was first attracted by someone who had a personality that he appreciated?     

The women men adore and never want to leave know all of these things.  So give your man what he needs and wants while retaining your own identity.    Don’t put his needs before yours but let him know he is someone special to you and that you adore and accept him unconditionally for what he is.

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