When your relationship breaks up, you have the choice of trying to get your ex back, or moving on to fresh pastures.  You tend to opt for the first choice when you still have feelings for your ex.   Otherwise you have to try getting over your relationship.

When you decide to try and get your ex back, stop at nothing.   You are the sole judge of if they are the right partner for life for you.  Your family and friends will usually be all too happy to give their opinions, but it is only you who is able to decide what you really want to do.  Normally their advice will be well meaning but you have to take care to see that their advice is not being given in their own self interest.  

When most of your friends are unmarried, they will be happy to keep you single, as they may be jealous that you have found someone you love.  If they don’t like your choice, they will be sad to see you leave the group and so may try to persuade you against getting your ex back  

There are also times when it is just not possible to get your ex back, whatever you may try to do to recover them.   When this happens, there is little you can do other than accept the situation and move on.    On other occasions where you split up because of something that was rather trivial, you may be able to get your ex back by letting go of a little false pride and apologizing for what you did.  Women have always been taught that in such affairs an apology might imply she is desperate, so it is often up to the man to seize the occasion and put matters right.  

You will realize how important it is that you think very hard before taking the decision as it may affect both of your lives for a long time to come.  If you are thinking of playing games and taking them back just so that you can dump them and learn what it is like, you would do much better to move on and save your energies for your next conquest.  If you are firmly convinced, however, that they would make you the perfect partner, you must do all you can to get them to return to your life?     

When you want them back you need to make yourself present where they are.  You need friends and family to carry a good message to help you and you must look after yourself and look great.  In time the right message will be heard by your ex.   You don’t want to make it look as if you are trying to hunt her down, even if that is in fact what you are trying to do.  

Why not call your ex directly and invite them out for dinner.  This may be all it takes if your ex has been hoping you would call them as they wanted to call you but were lost to know what to say.     

Whichever way you go about it, plan on doing it right first time as you might not get a second bite of the cherry!   You are perfectly able to get back an ex, just as you can decide that it is better to move on.   So make your choice, but be sure to succeed at it.          

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