Things I’ve Learned From Women Who’ve Dumped Me
Things I’ve Learned From Women Who’ve Dumped Me
When I think of all the things I’ve learned from women who’ve dumped me, I realize how they have actually helped me save my current relationship. You see, all relationships are similar in that the same in that they will fail if certain components do not exist. Your wealth and your good looks will not save you if they are missing; your relationship is doomed to failure.
All my previous girlfriends taught me some valuable lessons. They taught me to tell the truth even when it was difficult for me to do so. She will trust you when she knows you are always honest and being trusted is one of the foundations of a good relationship.
I learned that they expect me to tell them how I feel. That does not mean that I, like most men, am happy to talk all the time about how I am feeling. It does mean that I have to explain my feelings and not just expect her to guess what they are. I must also ask her about what she is feeling and listen to her replies. I am not there to solve the problems in her life as she is perfectly capable of doing this herself and my intervention would likely only annoy her. I must listen to what she says and only make a suggestion if she asks me to.
I have also realized that when I help with the menial household tasks, I am in a better position to ask for the sexual favors later. Small things done regularly are far more appreciated than a bigger effort that I make less frequently to help her. The things I do for her are much more appreciated when I do them than when I say them.
When she cuddles up close to me in bed, it does not necessarily mean that she is wanting to have sex so I must respect this and not be upset by it. I have to tell her that I find she is the sexiest thing that existed and not just think it; particularly when I am hoping for a little more than just a cuddle.
When I look back I realize that all my previous relationships had broken up because I did not follow these cardinal rules. I always thought that all I did was just perfect but I always got dumped because I had ignored my girlfriend or failed to understand them. I would probably continued to be unsuccessful in my relationships if I had not bought some books that helped me understand what were the main components of a great relationship. .
Not only am I happier now, but so is my wife. The things I’ve learned from women who’ve dumped have helped me to make the best of my relationship and they can help you as well.
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