How can you tell if you are in a toxic relationship?    This will likely be your problem if your partner:
-  Criticizes you publicly in front of other people.
-  Says they love you, but their actions don’t confirm this.
-  Is controlling you by reading your mail or checking everything you do.
-  Wants you to be solely [...]

Successful relationships are always based on mutual love and respect.  Toxic relationships are harmful and give little pleasure, and they are more difficult to get out of than they are to get into.  Your partner is always running you down, so you feel run down. Your partner has always controlled everything and you get used [...]